Happy Married Life

If you have been married for a while and have settled into life with your parents, in-laws, friends etc, you must be thinking that the job is done and now it's a smooth road ahead. Unfortunately, the truth is exactly the opposite. But the good news is that now you are a team and all the potholes that you encounter on this bumpy road will not have to be faced by you alone - your partner is going to be there with you. If you are trying your best and making an honest attempt at retaining the charm of your marriage, following these 10 rules will help you achieve your goal.

DON'T COCOON YOURSELF

Sometimes love is such a whirlwind of crazy joy that you forget that there are other people, things and activities in the world besides the two of you. While this is understandable, you have to have outlets, otherwise you'll drive each other bonkers. Before you met your partner, you were always getting together with your group of friends, hanging out with your family, putting in extra time at the office or taking a few classes to keep expanding your brain. Don't stop. Your marriage will be a lot more interesting if you keep on being the fascinating person you were before you two met. You'll also have a lot more to talk about over dinner.

MARRIED LIFE ISN'T EVERYTHING

Life becomes awfully narrow when your social life revolves exclusively around other couples. So once you're wed, keep mixing things up: his friends and your friends, work friends and school friends, neighbours and family, old friends and brand-new acquaintances, singletons and smug marrieds, parents of twins and the child-free.

DON'T WORRY. YOU'VE STILL GOT IT

When you were single, you met cute guys/ girls everywhere – at the laundry, on the subway, at funerals. Once you're hitched, it's easy to miss the buzz of universal admiring attention. But don't worry, you still have the power. You've just got to take it on faith instead flirting with every other cute person.

RESPECT YOUR IN-LAWS

Your in-laws may be incredible bores, gossipy and nosy, or tacky and embarrassing. Whatever type you've inherited, welcome them with open arms whenever you see them. No matter what you think of them, remember that they are responsible for raising your terrific partner. Even if you really believe that your partner only turned out normal due to some sort of divine intervention, give them the credit.

DON'T COMPARE

There will always be a couple that is funnier, more attractive, sexier, wealthier, nicer, hipper, healthier, smarter, more successful, and more glamourous than you two. But if you are constantly comparing yourself to other couples, you will miss out on enjoying how happy you are just being yourselves.

FIGHT A CLEAN FIGHT

When you were dating and you got into a spat you may have found that slamming doors, crying and racing back to your apartment were effective tools in winning an argument. Your partner would be so lost without you that they would come running over and say sorry. Sadly, the tactic is not going to work now that you are married and living together. You're a lot better off staying calm and staying put to solve a tiff.

BE A TEAM

While you are both successful, independent people, don't forget to cheer each other on, support each other's crazy dreams, and encourage each other to live your best lives. If he's up for a promotion, become best friends with his boss at the office party. If she's always been interested in Greek history, take her there to see it all. Lousy day for your partner? Treat him/ her and their friends to an after-work gripe session at a local pizza corner.

BE FABULOUS

Be comfortable being unconventional, glamourous or unique. Let your hair down. You've found someone who loves you, warts and all, so be the marvelous off-beat person that your partner fell in love with and continue to make an attempt to better yourself for them.

BE ROMANTIC

Sounds crazy but sometimes it's easy to forget what got you married in the first place. Don't stop being romantic, sexy, creative, impulsive, spontaneous and crazy in love now. Take salsa lessons, get tickets for a live concert and go for a date. Most important, don't ever forget the power of an unexpected drop-everything smooch.

BE THANKFUL FOR YOUR PARTNER

There are times when married life will make you think back to your sensational single days with longing and alarm. When the love of your life is driving you bananas, it is time to remember how sexy/ suave/ smart/ sensitive your partner was the night you first decided that they are 'the one'. Remember how lucky you are to have someone who puts up with all of your nonsense. If through everything, you remember to be grateful for landing the most wonderful person on the planet, your marriage will reflect that, every day.

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30 secret of successful Married Life. To live a happy married life, try these ideas
1.    Marriage is a blessing but many people make it a annoyance due to lack of understanding. Receiving and giving love, understanding, care & respect are strong basis of long way run married life.
2.    Whenever an argument arises, try to solve it peacefully.
3.    Keep in mind that no problem is so big that you cant solve it together. No trouble is worth breaking your marriage over.
4.    By celebrating Your Wedding Anniversaries each year. It shows that your marriage is alive and you totally committed to each other.
5.    Keep your relationship a priority and working at it will mean a healthier and happier home.
6.    Try to do something unexpected as sending flowers, gift without any occasion.
7.    If Money is the problem than try to make a stick budget.
8.    Instead of feeling lonely, sad and depress try to share your with your partner to understand you better. Tolerance, a little patience, understanding your partners wishes and respecting his/her opinions are what are required for a smooth marriage life.
9.    Communication is the key to a healthy marriage.
10.    Little Appreciation do wonders in your life, try to appreciate your husband/wife for whatever good you find in your partner.
11.    Take a break and try to spend sometime with each other and Spend quality of time with your companion by going for outings, watch a movie ,weekend holidays at this time listen & speak frankly with your partner on  future plans, carrier.
12.    Make use of "Thank you", "Well done", “Done Great job”, “I m sorry if I heart you, “I Love you so much”, “I m always there for you”.
13.    Care for Each other. If one of the partner healths is not good try to take a leave or call 3 to 5 times a day  for their health and ask have you take a medicine on time. Love you get well soon.
14.    Create Romantic Atmosphere in your life by going for candle light dinner, wear sexy lingerie’s play romantic songs or go for a romantic movie.
15.    Do listen to your spouse carefully and sympathetically. Never ignore.
16.    Early in the morning, both spouses should try to remain calm and cool.
17.    In marriage, each partner grows a balancing role, giving strength and moral courage to one another.
18.    Both husband and wife should show implicit trust for one another and try not to have secrets between them.
19.    If you are not in a city he or she tries to be in contact of your partner. Tell them I m really missing hope you re here with me. Never hesitate in showing your feelings. Express your love foe healthy marriage.
20.    Try to fulfill your wife expectation: Do some household work i.e. making tea or coffee, Need your moral support, loyalty, security, good companionship, great understanding, love,.
21.    Try to fulfill your Husband expectation: love him, Talk politely, family responsibility, Cook good food, Always speak truth ,proper care of children’s, Do saving, Be smart and independent.
22.    To ensure a successful marriage, a couple has to harmonize their lives by minimizing whatever differences they may have between them.
23.    Sex can keep your marriage strong and lack of sex can destroy your marriage talking with one another about these issues and spend more time with each other.
24.    In happy married life, both love and sex are inseparable.
25.    Never compare partner with any one, becoz every one has their own qualities. Always look at the good qualities of your spouse.
26.    Try to keep smiling whatever be the problem.
27.    Understanding plays very significant role in marriage. Great understanding means happy married life.
28.    Try to speak your partner if you done mistake such as "Pease forgive me!" should be sweetest word in married life.
29.    Successful Married Life: Honest + Love + Understanding + Care + Respect.
30.    Happy couples are the foundation for happy families! 

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Everyone wants to live happy married life, but very few succeed. This is prominent from the increase in the divorce rates noted by the surveys. Certainly, the way this generation is living life is taking the toll on their relationships. Specifically, the relationship between the husband and spouse is one that has been suffering a lot. 

Happy married life has now become a dream because many married couples are failing to achieve happiness in their relationship. But, don’t give up if you are facing any troubles in your married life. Here are some tips that would help you to resolve or avoid the problems in your married life and help to live happily forever with your life partner.

Five simple tips for happy married life are as follows—

1. Understanding 

Understanding is the basement of the married life. Until, you understand your partner completely you would not be able to stay happily with your partner. Understanding the likes and dislikes of the partner is prime responsibility in the marriage. So, for this you need to talk freely with your partner. But, don’t try to understand everything in a day. It would certainly take you some time frame to understand your partner completely.

2. Adjustment

Adjustment is the key to happy married life. Both the partners have to learn to do the adjustment. Marriage is not just a fun, it is the relationship that is build on trust and adjustment. You need to do lot of changes not only in your daily lifestyle but also in your habits to live with your new partner. Success of your marriage depends on the adjustment you to do to make your partner comfortable.

3. Love

Love is what your partner needs the most. Never forget to show love to your partner. It is the only feeling in the world that has the power to resolve all the problems in the relationship. Love helps your relationship to strengthen. It brings the partners closer and develops a bond of affection between them and certainly sows the seed for happy married life.

4. Caring

Take care of your partner. This would help your partner to understand that how much you care about him/her. Don’t just care to show it, but do it with your heart and I assure you that your partner would also do the same for you. 

5. Sharing of Responsibilities

Share your responsibilities with your partner will help a lot in development of understanding between the couple. Understand that sharing of responsibility of finance and house work is must for a happy married life. No partner should get the burden of these responsibilities. Sharing of responsibilities would inherit the feeling of respect for your partner that would help to strengthen the bond of love, which would ultimately help to live a happy married life.

These 5 tips are the pillars for the successful marriage.